Not so dear reader.
Ladies are well-turned, too. Though, they are in such short supply
these days. I dare say if you were to look around there would be far too
many spindly ladies than the well-turned sort.
What is a Well-Turned
Lady (WTL) you ask?
Go back, back, back
to a time when "Pilates Arms" were never heard of. It was a
time before the Fiscal Kerfuffle inflicted itself upon us. A time when we
would have known the Mayan Apocalypse as a dinner entree at Cuco's. A
gentler time, if you will.
All a lady had to do was
occasionally show a lovely ankle and it "brought all the boys to the
yard." And let me add a Yo to that.
But, it was not easy,
no. Before we commence down the primrose path to the mistaken belief in a
simpler time, I will disabuse you of the notion right now. The WTL led a
life of mastering the domestic arts and the actual ARTS amongst other
things.
It is the actual Arts
part that I endeavor to achieve, dear readers.
Thus the need for this “Blog of Days.”
The WTL invites you to join her on a journey to bring Artistic pursuits
and a well-lived life together.
Why might a WTL seek
such a path? Desperation.
One sunny afternoon the
WTL found herself in a used bookstore in Tallahassee, FL, and found a slim
volume entitled Anonymous Was a Woman.
Using the quote from Virginia Woolf, it depicted the hand work and folk
art of the 18th and 19th century, but it also described
the day-to-day domestic life of these women.
Suffice it to say, those ladies were not sissies. The work of Homecare and Creating all mingled
together in their work-laden lives.
As the WTL jumped around
the book to see quotes here and there, she saw this on pg. 37:
Saturday morning wrote journal in the afternoon
quilted for Miss Anne Baldwin…After tea took a short walk. In the evening sung songs and heard prayers...
Monday morning went to school…read history, painted in the afternoon.…
The WTL thought that
she’d kill to journal and quilt on a Saturday… She would love to paint on a
Monday afternoon. As for reading
history, who has time for these things now-a-days?
However, it also
reminded the WTL of another piece of writing:
[Miss
Bingley] A woman must have a thorough knowledge of music, singing, drawing,
dancing, and the modern languages, to deserve the word; and besides all this,
she must possess a certain something in her air and manner of walking, the tone
of her voice, her address and expressions, or the word will be but
half-deserved."
"All this she must possess," added Darcy, "and to all this she must yet add something more substantial, in the improvement of her mind by extensive reading."
[Elizabeth Bennet:] "I am no longer surprised at your knowing only six accomplished women. I rather wonder now at your knowing any." (8.51-53)
"All this she must possess," added Darcy, "and to all this she must yet add something more substantial, in the improvement of her mind by extensive reading."
[Elizabeth Bennet:] "I am no longer surprised at your knowing only six accomplished women. I rather wonder now at your knowing any." (8.51-53)
Right then and there the
WTL vowed to turn her attention to the examples of these periods of time in
order to cultivate herself. In doing so, she hoped to become accomplished
and more importantly she would nurture her creativity.
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